Since Josh and I started dating we have discussed moving to another state. About a year ago we narrowed the state down to Texas, the Austin area. For the last year we have seriously discussed moving, to the point of even telling most of our family and friends, looking at houses and jobs, and pricing out the move. As you can imagine most of our family was not happy when hearing the news and are hoping we decide not to go! This is such a huge decision and I can’t even imagine how to decide. There are pros and cons for staying and going. My question is how the heck do we decide? Is raising the girls in a better area going to outweigh moving them from all of their family? Will they ever resent us? Will my Mom ever forgive me? Can someone please help me?